Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

It doesnot do to leave a Dragon out of your calculations, if you live near him.

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather thancompetitive goals.

We have, I fear, confused power with greatness.

Manners are the hypocrisy of a nation.

The cliche that education never ends virtually ensures that it does'nt begin.

Wisdom loves the children of men, but she prefers those who come through foolishness to wisdom

Younever really understand a person until you consider things from his point ofview.

The true test of intelligence is not how much people know how to do, but how they behave when they don't know what to do.

Duringthe Depression, or back when we were fighting Hitler, people didn't have timeto sue a company if the coffee was too hot. There were urgent, pressingproblems. If you think you have it tough, read history books.

No battle is more sorely lost that the one not fought

Relationships of trust depend on our willingness to looknot only to our own interests, but also the interests of others.