Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.

Life has become a struggle between keeping your weight down and you spirits up.

Thenumber one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintaintheir self-esteem.

Democracy is the art of disciplining onself, so that one need not be disciplined by others.

People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

All that is sometimes needed to make you content with you lot is a bad dream.

Do we wish men to be virtuous? Then let us begin by making them love their country.

A perfect method for adding drama to life is to wait until the deadline looms large.

To beprepared is half the victory.

Action may not always bring Happiness, but there is no happiness without Action.

Tact is the ability to make a person see the lightning without letting him feel the bolt.