The most exquisite paradox… as soon as you give itall up, you can have it all. As long as you want power, you can't have it.The minute you don't want power, you'll have more than you ever dreamedpossible.

It isn't important to come out on top, what matters is to be the one who comes out alive.

Quarrelsend, but words once spoken never die.

Onlywhen you can be extremely pliable and soft can you be extremely hard andstrong.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather thancompetitive goals.

You make a mountain of a mole-hill.

A fool shows his annoyance at once, but a prudent man overlooks an insult.

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Theharder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph.

Don'tstand by the water and long for fish; go home and weave a net.

A moment's insight is sometimes worth a life's experience