The more estimable the offender, the greater the torment.

It's better to light one candle than to curse the darkness.

The ear tends to be lazy, craves the familiar and is shocked by the unexpected; the eye, on the other hand, tends to be impatient, craves the novel and is bored by repetition.

Ifanyone is not willing to accept your point of view, try to see his point of view.

The grand essentials of happiness are: something to do something to love, and something to hope for.

A man of great common sense and good taste-meaning there a man without originality or moral courage.

It ishard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because weare not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creatinga new ‘pearl’ as we are in being right.

The aimof argument, or of discussion, should not be victory, but progress.

Do not tell me the problem is a difficult one. If it were not difficult, it would not be a problem

Usenon-verbal communication to SOFTEN the hard-line position of others: S =Smile, O = Open, Posture, F = Forward Lean, T = Touch, E = Eye Contact, N =Nod.

Have adialogue between the two opposing parts and you will find that they alwaysstart out fighting each other until we come to an appreciation of difference... a oneness and integration of the two opposingforces. Then the civil war is finished, and your e

Hearme, my chiefs! I am tired. My heart is sick and sad. From where the sun nowstands, I will fight no more forever.