Use softwords and hard arguments.

People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

All excellent things are as difficult as they are rare

Don'tcut off your nose to spite your face.

Don't beafraid of opposition. Remember, a kite rises against, not with, the wind.

Duty largely consists of pretending that the trivial is critical

Anounce of mediation is worth a pound of arbitration and a ton of litigation!

I don't like that man. I'm going to have to get to knowhim better.

Luck never mad a mad man wise

Beware of the chap who reminds you that you can't take it with you . he'll try to take it with him.

Allthings at first appear difficult.

The more we see, the more we shall be able to imagine, and the more we imagine, the more we must think we see.