Girls .. . were allowed to play in the house . . . and boys were sent outdoors. . .Boys ran around in the yard with toy guns going kksshh-kksshh,fighting wars for made-up reasons and arguing about whowas dead, while girls stayed inside and played with dol

Pain is the outcome of sin.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Everybody thinks of changing humanity and nobody thinks of changing himself.

Tofight and conquer in all your battles is not supreme excellence; supremeexcellence consists in breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting.

Failingto plan is planning to fail.

Do we wish men to be virtuous? Then let us begin by making them love their country.

Thereare two dilemmas that rattle the human skull: How do you hang on to someone whowon't stay? And how do you get rid of someone who won't go?

Only hethat has traveled the road knows where the holesare deep.

The surest way to remain poor is to be an honest man.

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather thancompetitive goals.

Our patience will achieve more than our force.