The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
Pyaar karna bhi sikhado zara, uss dil ke kone mein humko bhi bithado zara. Hum tumhare dil mein hai ki nahi, hoton se na sahi aankhon se toh yeh batado zara… .......
Men love because they are afraid of themselves, afraid of the loneliness that lives in them, and need someone in whom they can lose themselves as smoke loses itself in the sky.