Girls .. . were allowed to play in the house . . . and boys were sent outdoors. . .Boys ran around in the yard with toy guns going kksshh-kksshh,fighting wars for made-up reasons and arguing about whowas dead, while girls stayed inside and played with dol

Cooperativeconflict builds people up, strengthens their relationships, and gets thingsdone.

A fool can tell the truth, but it requires a man of sense to know how to tell a lie.

Sometimes the man of action is the fellow who has just got both his feat in hot water.

The exercise of power is determined by thousands ofinteractions between the world of the powerful and that of the powerless, allthe more so because these worlds are never divided by a sharp line: everyonehas a small part of himself in both.

If you are standing upright, don't worry if your shadow is crooked.

A merefriend will agree with you, but a real friend will argue.

A moment's insight is sometimes worth a life's experience

Grantgraciously what you cannot refuse safely and conciliate those you cannotconquer.

Nothing do I regret more in my student life that thay my teachers were not my friends

Wecould never learn to be brave and patient if there were only joy in the world.

It is a strange desire to seek power and to lose liberty,or to seek power over others and to lose power over a man's self.