The planers do not make or mar our destiny. we are the makers of our destiny.

Most of our so-called reasoning consists in finding arguments for going on believingas we already do.

Whenmen and women agree, it is only in their conclusions; their reasons arealways different.

If anenemy is annoying you by playing well, consider adopting his strategy.

In aconflict, being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view toa viewing point a higher, moreexpansive place, from which you can see both sides.

Well-managed,cooperative conflict contributes to the productivity and innovativeness oforganizations and the competence and well-being of people.

History is the witness of the times, the light of truth.

All the power that we exercise over others depends on thepower we exercise over ourselves.

Be notdisturbed at being misunderstood; be disturbed at not understanding.

Luck iswhat happens when preparation meets opportunity.

The ultimate measured a man is not where he stands in marents of comfort, but whre he stands at times of challenge & contraversy.

Knowingthat everything's futile but still fighting, still raging against the dying ofthe light that's what motivates me all the time ... If you hold that sense offutility in your head for too long, it can begin to eat into you. You canstill be aware of it