A good listener is not someone with nothing to say. A good listener is a good talkerwith a sore throat.

You're ina much better position to talk with people when they approach you than whenyou approach them.

Remember when feminisit movements were something men gathered on street corners to admire as the girls strolled by

Self-trust is the first secret of success.

Ninety-ninepercent of all problems in communications start with misunderstandings whichdevelop as a result of differing viewpoints and conditioning.

Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

Listening,not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.

Theultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but hold hands.

In thefield of observation, chance favors only theprepared minds.

Silenceis the ultimate weapon of power.

Trust only movement. Life happens at the level of events, notof words. Trust movement.

Talkback to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.