Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

Insteadof suppressing conflicts, specific channels could be created to make thisconflict explicit, and specific methods could be set up by which the conflictis resolved.

Luck iswhat happens when preparation meets opportunity.

Sometimesone pays most for the things one gets for nothing.

Power does not corrupt men; fools, however, if they getinto a position of power, corrupt power.

Labour with what zeal we will. Something still remains undone.

A goodplan is like a road map: it shows the final destination and usually the bestway to get there.

Firstkeep the peace within yourself, then you can alsobring peace to others.

The most imaginative people are the most credulous, for to them everything is possible.

Few men of action have been able to make a graceful exit at the appropriate time.

Do notfind fault, find a remedy.

Only hethat has traveled the road knows where the holes are deep.