You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

The condition upon which God hath given liberty to man is eternal vigilance.

Itis all right if you talk to yourself. It is all right if you answer yourself.But when you start disagreeing with the answers, you've got a problem.

Learning, the destroyer of arrogance, begets arrogance in fools, even as light that illumines the eye, makes owls blind.

Talk back to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

Onlywhen all contribute their firewood can they build up a strong fire.

Patience is the art of hoping.

Past time is only eviil at a distance.

Thenumber one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintaintheir self-esteem.

It is long and hard and painful to create life; it is short and easy to steal the life others have made.

Night is the blotting paper of many sorrows.

Conduct is wise or foolish only in reference to its results.