Have adialogue between the two opposing parts and you will find that they alwaysstart out fighting each other until we come to an appreciation of difference... a oneness and integration of the two opposingforces. Then the civil war is finished, and your e

Dealwith the faults of others as gently as with your own.

Thehardest step is over the threshold.

Usesoft words and hard arguments.

Well-managed,cooperative conflict contributes to the productivity and innovativeness oforganizations and the competence and well-being of people.

The exercise of power is determined by thousands ofinteractions between the world of the powerful and that of the powerless, allthe more so because these worlds are never divided by a sharp line: everyonehas a small part of himself in both.

The function of genius is to furnish cretins with ideas twenty year later.

You've gotto know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em know, when to walk away, knowwhen to run.

To understand everything is to forgive everything.

The warexisting between the senses and reason.

Ifyou wish to make a man your enemy, tell him simply, 'You are wrong.' Thismethod works every time.

Contradictionshould awaken Attention, not Passion.