Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

The desire for change is a sign of safety.

Mostpeople I ask little from. I try to give them much, and expect nothing inreturn and I do very well in the bargain.

Use softwords and hard arguments.

Thedifficult part in an argument is not to defend one's opinion, but rather toknow it.

A woman can say more in a sigh than a man can say in a sermon.

When our hearts are empty, we collect things.

I think we may safely trust a good deal more than we do.

To be simple is the best thing in the world; to be modest is the next best thing. I am not so sure about being quiet.

If absolute power corrupts absolutely, does absolutepowerlessness make you pure?

Learning must be had, but in the second place, as subsequent only to greater qualities.

I’mwilling for any solution religious, political. I’m not going to keepoffering to negotiate so much because they turn us down each time. Itindicates a weakness on our part.