Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Life is no brief candle- it's a splendid torch!

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather thancompetitive goals.

Conflictis the gadfly of thought. It stirs us to observation and memory. Itinstigates to invention. It shocks us out of sheeplikepassivity, and sets us at noting and contriving.

If you climb up a tree, you must climb down the same tree.

We often pardon those who bore us, we cannot pardon those whom we bore.

Honesty and Wisdom are such a delightful pastime, at another person's expense !

You can not help men permanantly by doing for them what they could do for themselves

Relationships of trust depend on our willingness to looknot only to our own interests, but also the interests of others.

Manners are the hypocrisy of a nation.

Words should be scattered like seeds, no matter how small the seed may be, its it has one found favourable ground, it unfolds its strength.