Our faults irritate us most when we see them in others.

He who is unable to dance says the yard is stony.

Compromiseis never anything but an ignoble truce between the duty of a man and theterror of a coward.

He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers.

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather than competitive goals.

Experience keeps a dear school, but tools will learn in no other.

Thereare no secrets. There is no mystery. There is only common sense.

Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

Ifthere is any great secret of success in life, it lies in the ability to putyourself in the other person’s place and to see things from his point of view as well as your own.

You can not help men permanantly by doing for them what they could do for themselves

Soremarkably perverse is the nature of man that he despises those that court himand admires whoever will not bend before him.

Our patience will achieve more than our force.