Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

A slyrabbit will have three openings to its den.

No battle is more sorely lost that the one not fought

Talkback to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

Beholdthe turtle. He makes progress only when he sticks his neck out.

Neverforget the power of silence, that massively disconcerting pause which goes onand on and may at last induce an opponent to babble and backtrack nervously.

No onewould talk much in society; if he knew how often he misunderstands others.

Listening,not imitation, may be the sincerest form of flattery.

I give myself,sometimes, admirable advice, but I am incapable of taking it.

Usenon-verbal communication to SOFTEN the hard-line position of others: S =Smile, O = Open, Posture, F = Forward Lean, T = Touch, E = Eye Contact, N =Nod.

Thegreatest lesson in life is to know that even fools are right sometimes.

If youcould kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, youwouldn't sit for a month.