All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Don'tjudge a book by its cover.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Buying ischeaper than asking.

Aquarrel is like buttermilk: once it's out of the churn, the more you shakeit, the more sour it grows.

The first duty of love is to listen.

It wasimpossible to get a conversation going, everybody was talking too much.

We donot have to agree; we do need to understand.

The art of life is the avoiding of pain.

Nothing is greater impediment to being on good terms with other than being ill at ease with yourself.

Takecare, don't fight, and remember: if you do not choose to lead, you willforever be led by others. Find what scares you, and do it. And you can make adifference, if you choose to do so.

Byblending the breath of the sun and the shade, true harmony comes into theworld.