It's notthe will to win, but the will to prepare to win that makes the difference.

What we seek we shall find, what we flee from flee from us.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

It doesnot do to leave a Dragon out of your calculations, if you live near him.

Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

Sacrificers are not the ones to pity. The ones to pity are those they sacrifice.

There arealways two forces warring against each other within us.

Nostrength within, no respect without.

It is much easier to be a hero than a gentleman.

No battle is more sorely lost that the one not fought

Thenumber one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintaintheir self-esteem.