The tormentof human frustration, whatever its immediate cause, is the knowledge that theself is in prison, its vital force and ‘mangled mind’ leaking away in lonely,wasteful self-conflict.

Thereare two dilemmas that rattle the human skull: How do you hang on to someone whowon't stay? And how do you get rid of someone who won't go?

If anenemy is annoying you by playing well, consider adopting his strategy.

The Universe is not only queerer that we imagine, it is queered than we can imagine.

Whilewe consider when to begin, it becomes too late.

Keep things informal. Talking is the natural way to do business. Writing is greatfor keeping records and putting down details, but talk generates ideas. Greatthings come from our luncheon meetings which consist of a sandwich, a cup ofsoup, and a good idea

All our rightousnesses are like filthy rags

Every new adjustment is a crisis in self-esteem.

The ability to laugh together is the essence of love.

The poet gives us his essence, but prose takes the mould of the body and mind entire.

People who fight with fire usually end up with ashes.

Blessed are they who have nothing to say and who cannot be persuaded to say it.