Itmatters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

Thefire you kindle for your enemy often burns yourself more than him.

Even a dog knows the difference between being stumbledover and being kicked.

There may be said to be two classes of people in the world: those who constantly divide the people of the world into two classes and those who do not.

The weaknesses of many make leader possible.

To have a respect for ourselves guides our morals; to have a deference for others governs our manners.

Tell meand I'll forget. Show me, and I may not remember. Involve me, and I'llunderstand.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

It ishard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because weare not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creatinga new ‘pearl’ as we are in being right.

It is a lesson which all history teaches wise men, to puttrust in ideas, and not in circumstances.

Humor is the affectionate communication of insight.

Aproblem is a chance for you to do your best.