The good things of life are not to be had singly, but come to us with a mixture; like a school boy's holiday, with a task affixed to the tail of it.

Enthusiasm sees only the down payment.

Differentfields, different grasshoppers; different seas, different fish.

Embracingconflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration canlead to growth and fascination.

The difficultpart in an argument is not to defend one's opinion, but rather to know it.

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather than competitive goals.

A goodlistener is not someone with nothing to say. A good listener is a good talkerwith a sore throat.

Learning, the destroyer of arrogance, begets arrogance in fools, even as light that illumines the eye, makes owls blind.

What wesee depends mainly on what we look for.

Prejudice is a disease characterised by hardening of categories.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

The directuse of force is such a poor solution to any problem, it is generally employedonly by small children and large nations.