All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Whoever does not know the truth is ignorant, but the one who knows the truth but denies is a criminal

Renown and repose do not go together.

A merefriend will agree with you, but a real friend will argue.

Lookingfor fish? Don't climb a tree.

Ultimately, the only power to which man should aspire isthat which he exercises over himself.

Our distrust is very expensive.

Hold a true friend with both your hands.

Talk back to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

The Pursuit of perfection is the persuit of sweetness and light.

Insteadof suppressing conflicts, specific channels could be created to make thisconflict explicit, and specific methods could be set up by which the conflictis resolved.

You can't change people, but you can channel them your way.