Themost important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said.

Aperson whose heart is not content is like a snake which tries to swallow anelephant.

The first duty of love is to listen.

Embracingconflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration canlead to growth and fascination.

Work without faith is like at attempt to reach a bottom-less pit.

We cannot always control our thoughts, but we can control our words, and repetitionimpresses the subconscious, and we are then master of the situation.

Beautifullight is born of darkness, so the faith that springs from conflict is oftenthe strongest and the best.

Nature hasgiven men one tongue and two ears, that we may hear twice as much as wespeak.

The cliche that education never ends virtually ensures that it does'nt begin.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Theterm up has no meaning apart from the word down. The term fasthas no meaning apart from the term slow. In addition, such termshave no meaning even when used together, except when confined to a veryparticular situation... most of our language about the

Talk back to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.