All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Conduct is wise or foolish only in reference to its results.

He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers.

Listeningwell is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well.

Within-groupconflict is always personal and emotional even if it begins with impersonalissues.

Only hethat has traveled the road knows where the holes are deep.

This dualityhas been reflected in classical as well as modern literature as reason versuspassion, or mind versus intuition. The split between the ‘conscious’ mind andthe ‘unconscious.’ There are moments in each of our lives when ourverbal-intellect sugges

To pushadvantages too far is neither generous nor just.

It's good to shut up sometimes.

Peacecan not be kept by force. It can only be won, through understanding. Ourlonging for understandingis Eternal.

Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficultstill, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.

Sayingnothing... sometimes says the most.