Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Don'tclose the barn door after the horse runs away.

The art of life is the avoiding of pain.

Don'thate, it's too big a burden to bear.

People who do not believe in miracles are not realist.

To teach isto learn twice.

Kind words do not cost much. Yet they accomplish much.

It isdifficult to negotiate where neither will trust.

Ourlives are not dependent on whether or not we have conflict. It is what we dowith conflict that makes the difference.

Talkback to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

Onehour of thoughtful solitude may nerve the heart for days of conflict girdingup its armor to meet the most insidious foe.

Learning must be had, but in the second place, as subsequent only to greater qualities.