You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

Myinterest is in the future because I'm going to be spending the rest of mylife there.

Thepeople to fear are not those who disagree with you, but those who disagreewith you and are too cowardly to let you know.

If you are patient in a moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.

To startblindly with a statement is a sign of arrogance and narrow-mindedness, andwill lead to conflict. To start blindly with a question is a sign ofuncertainty and honesty, and will lead to wisdom.

Ignoring is not the same thing as being tolerant

Bestill when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say whatyou've got to say, and say it hot.

It is in our idleness, in our dreams, that submerged truth sometimes comes to top.

Liberation is not deliverance.

Old wood best of burn, old friend to trust and old authors to read.

No one was ever really taught by another; each of us has to teach himself.