We mustbe part of the general staff at the inception, rather than the ambulancedrivers at the bitter end.

Thetruth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feelingdeeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in suchmoments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of ourruts and start searching for di

Sincerity is impossible, unless it pervades the whole being, and the pretence of it saps the very foundation of character

The most important things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them.

Firstkeep the peace within yourself, then you can alsobring peace to others.

Enthusiasm is faith set on fire.

Marriagemeans expectations and expectations mean conflict.

Ho puri dil ki har khwaish teri, Ho khushiyon bhara jahaan tera, Agar tu maange aasmaan ka ek taara, To khuda de-de tumko aasmaan saara.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Be notdisturbed at being misunderstood; be disturbed at not understanding.

To start blindly with a statement is a sign of arrogance and narrow-mindedness,and will lead to conflict. To start blindly with a question is a sign ofuncertainty and honesty, and will lead to wisdom.

Usesoft words and hard arguments.