Maturityis the capacity to endure uncertainty.

The onesure way to conciliate a tiger is to allow oneself to be devoured.

Themost intense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security andcalm that is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts andtheir conflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.

Neverforget the power of silence, that massively disconcerting pause which goes onand on and may at last induce an opponent to babble and backtrack nervously.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Badplanning on your part does not constitute an emergency on my part.

Conduct is wise or foolish only in reference to its results.

Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and a blind can read.

Usesoft words and hard arguments.

The more faithfully you listen to the voice withhin you, the batter you will hear what is sounding outside.And only he who listens can speak.

They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.

It isn't important to come out on top, what matters is to be the one who comes out alive.