Am Inot destroying my enemies when I make friends of them?

Ultimately, the only power to which man should aspire isthat which he exercises over himself.

Talk back to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

Girls .. . were allowed to play in the house . . . and boys were sent outdoors. . .Boys ran around in the yard with toy guns going kksshh-kksshh,fighting wars for made-up reasons and arguing about whowas dead, while girls stayed inside and played with dol

We think too small. Like the frog at the bottom of the well. He thinks the sky is only as big as the top of the well. If he surfaced, he would have an entirely different view.

He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers.

To believe in something, and not to live it, is dishonest.

Youdon't have to worry about being bit if the dog doesn't have any teeth.Success has made failures of many men.

You gotto be very careful if you don't know where you're going, because you mightnot get there.

Cooperativeconflict builds people up, strengthens their relationships, and gets thingsdone.

People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

It is less dangerous to treat most men badly than to treat them too well.