Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

War does not determine who is right - only who is left

Agrievance is most poignant when almost redressed.

Aclosed mind is like a closed book; just a block of wood.

What is well done is done soon enough.

Few things help an individual more than to placeresponsibility upon him, and to let him know that you trust him.

Conflictis neither good nor bad. Properly managed, it is absolutely vital.

He approaches nearest to the gods who knows how to be silent, even though he is in the right.

Neverforget the power of silence, that massively disconcerting pause which goes onand on and may at last induce an opponent to babble and backtrack nervously.

Themost intense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security andcalm that is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts andtheir conflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.

Thereare two sides to every question.

There'sno point in arguing with partisan supporters. Their views are their identity.Nothing you can tell the most phlegmatic follower.