People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

When the eyes says one thing, and the tounge another, a practised man relise on the language of first.

Out ofthe fullness of the heart the mouth speaks.

He that can't endure the bad, will not live to see thegood.

When you hear the word 'Invietable' watch out! An enemy of humanity has identified himself.

Assumptionof cooperative goals leads to viewing the conflict as a common problem to besolved for mutual benefit.

Learning is the property of those who fear to do disagreeable things.

No matter how much cats fight, there always seem to be plenty of kittens.

Gossip is that which no one claims to like-but everybody enjoys.

In aconflict, being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view toa viewing point a higher, moreexpansive place, from which you can see both sides.

When our hearts are empty, we collect things.

Power consists in one's capacity to link his will with thepurpose of others, to lead by reason and a gift of cooperation.