Misfortuneis not that which can be avoided, but that which cannot.

Assumptionof cooperative goals leads to viewing the conflict as a common problem to besolved for mutual benefit.

When makinga decision of minor importance, I have always found it advantageous toconsider all the pros and cons. In vital matters, however, such as the choiceof a mate or a profession, the decision should come from the unconscious,from somewhere within ou

Teaching may contribute to certain kinds of learning under certain circumstances.

Real swaraj will come not by the acquisition of authority by a few but by the acquisition of capacity by all to resist authority when it is abused

The mostimportant things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them.

Embracingconflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration canlead to growth and fascination.

A manneed never revenge himself; the body of his enemy will be brought to his owndoor.

If error is corrected whenever it is recognized as such,the path of error is the path of truth.

Agrievance is most poignant when almost redressed.

Prayrer changes things by changing people.

Negotiatingin the classic diplomatic sense assumes parties are more anxious to agreethan to disagree.