Thetruth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feelingdeeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in suchmoments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of ourruts and start searching for di

Standingin the middle of the road is very dangerous; you get knocked down by thetraffic from both sides.

Wherethe tongue slips, it speaks the truth.

A happy home is one in which each spouse grants the possiblility that the other may be right, though neither believes it.

People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

You made your bed, now lie in it.

The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.

Beon a horse when you go in search of a better one.

You can outdistance that which is running after you, but not what is running insideyou.

He who asks questions cannot avoid the answers.

Supicion of one's own motives is especially necessary for the philanthropist and the executive.

There is no passion in life as intense as the desire to change someone else's draft.