They may forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Reasonand emotion are not antagonists. What seems like a struggle between twoopposing ideas or values, one of which, automatic and unconscious, manifestsitself in the form of a feeling.

Makesure you leave some fat for the other side.

Do not tell me the problem is a difficult one. If it were not difficult, it would not be a problem

When you are feeling stressed and about to breakdown, just remember: STRESSED is just DESSERTS spelled backwards.. it's a piece of cake!

Oppositesattract and then can't stand each other.

Trust begets trust and untrust begets untrust. It'snatural.

What matter is not to add years to your life but to add life to your years.

Duty largely consists of pretending that the trivial is critical

Wecannot always control our thoughts, but we can control our words, andrepetition impresses the subconscious, and we are then master of thesituation.