Do not wrong or hate your neighbor for it is not hethat you wrong but yourself.

Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

Kind words do not cost much. Yet they accomplish much.

The Older I get, the more I judge people by their character and not by their ideas.

Duty largely consists of pretending that the trivial is critical

What is required is sight and insight, then you might add one more excite.

Do not judge, and you will never be mistaken

If you arepatient in a moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.

Ifthere is any great secret of success in life, it lies in the ability to putyourself in the other person’s place and to see things from his point of view as well as your own.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

If you truly want honesty, don't ask questions you don't really want the answer to.

Thecorrect strategy for Americans negotiating with Japanese or other foreignclients is a Japanese strategy:ask questions. When you think you understand, ask more questions. Carefullyfeel for pressure points.If an impasse is reached, don't pressure. Sugges