Power is not only what you have but what the enemy thinksyou have.

Girls .. . were allowed to play in the house . . . and boys were sent outdoors. . .Boys ran around in the yard with toy guns going kksshh-kksshh,fighting wars for made-up reasons and arguing about whowas dead, while girls stayed inside and played with dol

Ifanyone is not willing to accept your point of view, try to see his point of view.

In aconflict, being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view toa viewing point a higher, moreexpansive place, from which you can see both sides.

It's notthe size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog.

As longas you keep a person down, some part of you has to be down there to hold himdown, so it means you cannot soar as you otherwise might.

The Natural flights of Human mind are not from Pleasure to pleasure, but from hope to hope.

Conflictlies at the core of innovation.

Anyonewho conducts an argument by appealing to authority is not using his intelligence,just his memory.

Those who trust us educate us.

Thepast is malleable and flexible, changing as our recollection interprets andre-explains what has happened.

Soremarkably perverse is the nature of man that he despises those that court himand admires whoever will not bend before him.