I know youbelieve you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realizethat what you heard isn't what I meant.

Peoplewho can't admit they are part of the problem, will never be part of itssolution.

Conflictis inevitable, but combat is optional.

Talkingcomes by nature, silence by wisdom.

It isimpossible to defeat an ignorant man in argument.

Themost important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how toget along with people.

Our faults irritate us most when we see them in others.

Light is good in whatever lamp it may burn; even as a rose is beautiful in whatever garden it may bloom.

Thenumber one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintaintheir self-esteem.

Differentfields, different grasshoppers; different seas, different fish.

Old fools are more foolish than you ones.

Girls .. . were allowed to play in the house . . . and boys were sent outdoors. . .Boys ran around in the yard with toy guns going kksshh-kksshh,fighting wars for made-up reasons and arguing about whowas dead, while girls stayed inside and played with dol