The fire you kindle for your enemy often burns yourself more than him.

Between friends there is no need of Justice.

Only freemen can negotiate. Prisoners cannot enter into contracts. Your freedom andmine cannot be separated.

Undernormal conditions, most people tend to see what they want to see, hear what theywant to hear, and do what they want to do; in conflicts, their positionsbecome even more rigid and fixed.

Peaceis not the absence of conflict but the presence of creative alternatives forresponding to conflict alternatives to passive or aggressive responses,alternatives to violence.

What dowe live for, if it is not to make life less difficult for each other.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Differentfields, different grasshoppers; different seas, different fish.

Duringthe Depression, or back when we were fighting Hitler, people didn't have timeto sue a company if the coffee was too hot. There were urgent, pressingproblems. If you think you have it tough, read history books.

Bestill when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say whatyou've got to say, and say it hot.

Conflictlies at the core of innovation.

If you get to thinking you're a person of some influence,try ordering somebody else's dog around.