It's better to light one candle than to curse the darkness.

The possession of power over others in inherently destructiveboth to the possessor of the power and to those over whom it is exercised.

Embracingconflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration canlead to growth and fascination.

The king goes as far as he may, not as far as he could.

The exercise of power is determined by thousands ofinteractions between the world of the powerful and that of the powerless, allthe more so because these worlds are never divided by a sharp line: everyonehas a small part of himself in both.

Power corrupts. Absolute power is kind of neat.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.
One ofthe best ways to persuade others is with your ears by listening to them.

Ignorance is a form of environmental pollution.

If you climb up a tree, you must climb down the same tree.

Don't throwout the baby with the bath water.

When angry, count to ten before you speak; if very angry ahundred.

Talk back to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.