Treat peopleas if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what theyare capable of being.

Do not tell me the problem is a difficult one. If it were not difficult, it would not be a problem

Insteadof suppressing conflicts, specific channels could be created to make thisconflict explicit, and specific methods could be set up by which the conflictis resolved.

Power is the faculty or capacity to act, the strength andpotency to accomplish something. It is the vital energy to make choices anddecisions. It also includes the capacity to overcome deeply embedded habitsand to cultivate higher, more effective ones.

Cooperativeconflict builds people up, strengthens their relationships, and gets thingsdone.

By tryingoften, the monkey learns to jump from the tree.

Nature gave women too much power; the law gives them too little.

The ability to laugh together is the essence of love.

Without trust, words become the hollow sound of a woodengong. With trust, words become life itself.

Almost all four faults are more pardonable than the methods we think up to hide them

There'sno point in arguing with partisan supporters. Their views are their identity.Nothing you can tell the most phlegmatic follower.

Thefire you kindle for your enemy often burns yourself more than him.