Ifyou are leaning over to starboard to balance the boat against the other guy'spropensity to lean too far to port, both of you are about to get wet.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

It isdifficult to negotiate where neither will trust.

One whodoes not look ahead remains behind.

It seemed rather incongruous that in a society of super sophisticatedcommunication, we often suffer from a shortage of listeners.

Our power is in our ability to decide.

No one is free who does not Lord over himself.

A man's real life is that accorded to him in the thoughtd other man by reason of respect or natural love.

True,Heaven prohibits certain pleasures; but one can generally negotiate acompromise.

Conflictisn't negative, it just is.

Show me a man who cannot bother to do little things andI'll show you a man who cannot be trusted to do big things.

Whenyou cannot make up your mind which of two evenly balanced courses of actionyou should take choose the bolder.