Insteadof suppressing conflicts, specific channels could be created to make thisconflict explicit, and specific methods could be set up by which the conflictis resolved.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

Usenon-verbal communication to SOFTEN the hard-line position of others: S =Smile, O = Open, Posture, F = Forward Lean, T = Touch, E = Eye Contact, N =Nod.

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather thancompetitive goals.

Poetry is the impish attempt to paint the colour of the wind.

A lifemaking mistakes is not only more honorable, butmore useful than a life spent doing nothing at all.

Nothing is a permanent except change.

Non-cooperationis a measure of discipline and sacrifice, and it demands respect for theopposite views.

What is required is sight and insight, then you might add one more excite.

If Igive you an idea, and you give me an idea, we will each have two ideas.

Suffer fools gladly, they might be right.

He who gainsa victory over other men is strong; but he who gains a victory over himselfis all powerful.