Do not tell me the problem is a difficult one. If it were not difficult, it would not be a problem

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Almost all four faults are more pardonable than the methods we think up to hide them

Theability to speak eloquently is not to be confused with having something tosay.

Every kind of peaceful cooperation among men is primarily basedon mutual trust and only secondarily on institutions such as courts ofjustice and police.

Humoris the affectionate communication of insight.

Nosnowflake in an avalanche ever feels responsible.

A man who doesn't trust himself can never really trust anyoneelse.

Thenumber one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintaintheir self-esteem.

Poetry is the impish attempt to paint the colour of the wind.

Suspicion begets suspicion.

It doesnot do to leave a Dragon out of your calculations, if you live near him.