All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

When youhave to make a choice and you don't make it, that itself is a choice.

A Habit is a shirt made of iron.

The first duty of love is to listen.

To like and dislike the same thing, that is, indeed, friendship.

Conflictleads to less-than-adequate performance, resentments, and lack of motivation.

Being virtuous is no feat once temptation ceases.

He who is unable to dance says the yard is stony.

A man, when he burns, leaves only a handful of ashes. woman can hold him. the wind must blow him away.

This creative man, who in his own selfish affairs is a coward to the backbone, will fight for an idea like a hero.

I'm nota combative person. My long experience has taught me to resolve conflict byraising the issues before I or others burn their boats.

Onlywhen all contribute their firewood can they build up a strong fire.