Most ofour so-called reasoning consists in finding arguments for going on believingas we already do.

Sciencecannot resolve moral conflicts, but it can help to more accurately frame thedebates about those conflicts.

Thosewho are at war with others are not at peace with themselves.

It's notthe size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog.

Well-managed,cooperative conflict contributes to the productivity and innovativeness oforganizations and the competence and well-being of people.

It's more shameful to mistrust one's friends than to be deceived by them.

Habit: the shackles of the free

Politeness is the art of selecting among one's real thoughts.

Every new adjustment is a crisis in self-esteem.

Where love rules, there is no will to power; and wherepower predominates, there love is lacking. The one is the shadow of theother.

Power is the faculty or capacity to act, the strength andpotency to accomplish something. It is the vital energy to make choices anddecisions. It also includes the capacity to overcome deeply embedded habitsand to cultivate higher, more effective ones.

Beforeeverything else, getting ready is the secret to success.