You andyour spouse should consider the arguments you have, not as calamities in thehistory of your child’sdevelopment, but as opportunities for learning. Take the opportunity to teachyour children the art ofand value in negotiation, and to demonstrate you

Silenceis argument carried out by other means.

All our rightousnesses are like filthy rags

Don'twrestle a pig in a mud hole. You both get all dirty, and the pig enjoys it.

You can outdistance that which is running after you, but not what is running insideyou.

People who can't admit they are part of the problem, willnever be part of its solution.

Washing one's hands of the conflict between the powerfuland the powerless means to side with the powerful, not to be neutral.

Have adialogue between the two opposing parts and you will find that they alwaysstart out fighting each other until we come to an appreciation of difference... a oneness and integration of the two opposingforces. Then the civil war is finished, and your e

Whenyou cannot make up your mind which of two evenly balanced courses of actionyou should take choose the bolder.

If all those who speak would weigh their words, how light air would be!

Thesearch for someone to blame is always successful.

Familiarize yourself with the chains of bondage and you prepare your own limbs to wear them.