Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

The pessimistsees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees opportunity in everydifficulty.

The more estimable the offender, the greater the torment.

Treat peopleas if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what theyare capable of being.

The bad gardener quarrels with his rake.

When regard for truth has been broken down or evenslightly weakened, all things will remain doubtful.

He whocannot agree with his enemies is controlled by them.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

The directuse of force is such a poor solution to any problem, it is generally employedonly by small children and large nations.

Listeningwell is as powerful a means of communication and influence as to talk well.

Onlyfree men can negotiate. Prisoners cannot enter into contracts. Your freedomand mine cannot be separated.

Liberation is not deliverance.