Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony

Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficultstill, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.

Wordsare, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind.

Conflictleads to less-than-adequate performance, resentments, and lack of motivation.

Usesoft words and hard arguments.

Another form of wastefulness is expenditure of words beyond the income of ideas.

I love power. But it is as an artist that I love it. Ilove it as a musician loves his violin, to draw out its sounds and chords andharmonies.

Assumptionof cooperative goals leads to viewing the conflict as a common problem to besolved for mutual benefit.

Years wrinkle the face, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul.

Sincerity is impossible, unless it pervades the whole being, and the pretence of it saps the very foundation of character

He who truly knows has no occasion to shout

No man is the whole himself; his friends are the rest of him.