A happy home is one in which each spouse grants the possiblility that the other may be right, though neither believes it.

Truepeace is not merely the absence of tension: it is the presence of justice.

Even a fish wouldn't get into trouble if it kept its mouth shut.

Washing one's hands of the conflict between the powerfuland the powerless means to side with the powerful, not to be neutral.

Thenumber one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintaintheir self-esteem.

Keepthings informal. Talking is the natural way to do business. Writing is greatfor keeping records and putting down details, but talk generates ideas. Greatthings come from our luncheon meetings which consist of a sandwich, a cup ofsoup, and a good idea

The great advantage of a hotel is that it's a refuge from home life.

Peaceis not the absence of conflict but the presence of creative alternatives forresponding to conflict alternatives to passive or aggressive responses,alternatives to violence.

Onlywhen you can be extremely pliable and soft can you be extremely hard andstrong.

Much learning does not teach understanding.

You've gotto know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em know, when to walk away, knowwhen to run.

No strength within, no respect without.