A good listeneris not only popular everywhere, but after a while he gets to know something.

The more estimable the offender, the greater the torment.

Theharder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph.

Kind words do not cost much. Yet they accomplish much.

Anempty sack cannot stand up.

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather thancompetitive goals.

Everyoneis kneaded out of the same dough but not baked in the same oven.

Only hethat has traveled the road knows where the holesare deep.

Power is the faculty or capacity to act, the strength andpotency to accomplish something. It is the vital energy to make choices anddecisions. It also includes the capacity to overcome deeply embedded habitsand to cultivate higher, more effective ones.

Insteadof suppressing conflicts, specific channels could be created to make thisconflict explicit, and specific methods could be set up by which the conflictis resolved.

All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Self-trust is the first secret of success.