A large ocean liner was headed across the Atlantic fromPortsmouth to New York. As it neared its destination at night, a lookout onthe wing of the bridge reported, ‘Light, bearing on the starboardbow.’‘Is it steady or moving astern?’ the captain called out

The ultimate measured a man is not where he stands in marents of comfort, but whre he stands at times of challenge & contraversy.

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather thancompetitive goals.

He whohurries cannot walk with dignity.

Within-groupconflict is always personal and emotional even if it begins with impersonalissues.

I hope our wisdom will grow with our power, and teach us,that the less we use our power the greater it will be.

Mensucceed when they realize that their failures are the preparation for theirvictories.

It is mark of a good man not to know how to do an injury.

A goodpreparation takes longer than the delivery.

In history, characters and events occur twice, first as tragedy then as farce.

Beware,as long as you live, of judging people of appearances.

Assumptionof cooperative goals leads to viewing the conflict as a common problem to besolved for mutual benefit.