A man's ruin lies in his tongue.

Thosewho are at war with others are not at peace with themselves.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.

A man does not know what he is saying until he knows what he is not saying.

One of the lessons of history is that nothing is often a good thing to do and alwaysa clever thing to say.

Nature's instructions are always slow, those of men are generally premature.

Conflictlies at the core of innovation.

Manmust evolve for all human conflict a method which rejects revenge,aggression, and retaliation.

Folly is perennial and yet the human race has survived

The Truly free man is one who know how to decline an invitation without giving an excuse.

It is a strange desire, to seek power, and to loseliberty; or to seek power over others, and to lose power over a man's self.

Onlywhen you can be extremely pliable and soft can you be extremely hard andstrong.