All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.

Man must not check reason by tradition, but must check tradition by reason.

A man of courage is also full of faith.

Love is the noblest frailty of the of the mind

Some people suffer in silence louder than others

One must be fond of people and trust them if one is not tomake a mess of life.

A state with defective laws will have defective morals.

If you climb up a tree, you must climb down the same tree.

To like and dislike the same thing, that is, indeed, friendship.

Embracingconflict can become a joy when we know that irritation and frustration canlead to growth and fascination.

Thecompromise will always be more expensive than either of the suggestions it iscompromising.