Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

Analysis kills spontaneity.The grain once ground to floor,springs and germinates no more.

Be yourself and speak your mind today, though it contradicts all you have said before.

Everyoneis wise until he speaks.

The rulers must be watched, not the ruled.

Fortunatelypsychoanalysis is not the only way to resolve inner conflicts. Life itselfstill remains a very effective therapist.

Neveranswer a letter while you are angry.

He who gainsa victory over other men is strong; but he who gains a victory over himselfis all powerful.

People who can't admit they are part of the problem, willnever be part of its solution.

A book, like a landscape, is a state of consciouness varying with readers.

Kind wordscan be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.

Habit: the shackles of the free