Usesoft words and hard arguments.

Nature arms each man with some faculty which enables himto do easily some feat impossible to any other.

Modesty is the clothing of talent.

Speechis human, silence is divine, yet also brutish and dead; therefore we mustlearn both arts.

Hear me,my chiefs! I am tired. My heart is sick and sad. From where the sun nowstands, I will fight no more forever.

It's the job that's never started as takes longest to finish.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Conflictlies at the core of innovation.

Ifthere is any great secret of success in life, it lies in the ability to putyourself in the other person’s place and to see things from his point of view as well as your own.

We often pardon those who bore us, we cannot pardon those whom we bore.

Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

Loving without dreaming is like going to Venice without riding in a gondola